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On Saturday 3 May 2003, with the help of many friends, most particularly our dear friend Alison, Karen & charles got handfasted! |
Handfasting Ceremony
May 3rd, 2003, 1pm
in a land above the rainbow
Alison officiating
Hina & Bhasa greet people as they arrive, and pass out
ceremony programs.
Daniel orchestrates the parking. Lisa & Robert help organize the food.
John takes charge of the camcorder. Joan & Patti have their cameras ready...
At 1pm, Hina & Bhasa ring Tibetan Bells to gather people to the circle in the orchard
Dorcas & family lead procession of Karen & Charles into circle with musical instruments
J’té & Hina sage everyone while charles' composition "Karen Cathedral" (on the handfasting CD) plays.
Welcome & calling in the elements by Alison

Alison invites people to create central altar
"Karen and Charles have asked several people to present totems of spiritual teachers & energies that are important to them to be present for this handfasting ceremony."
Reading " Transforming Power" Tao
Te Ching
Read
by: Amy
Your love contains the power of
a thousand suns.
It unfolds naturally and effortlessly as
does a flower,
And graces the world with its blooming.
Its beauty radiates a transforming energy that
enlivens all who see it.
Because of you, compassion and joy are
added to the world.
That is why the stars sing together
Because of your love.
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! It is an ever fixed mark,
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this is error,
and upon me prov’d,
I never writ,
nor no man ever lov’d.
Reading "On Marriage" from "The Prophet"
by Kahlil Gibran
Read
by: Mary Ann
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory
of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores
of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from
the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they
quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each
other’s shadow.
Alison assists in wrapping red & green cords in figure of eight pattern around Karen & Charles.
Alison speaks about symbolism of infinity & union.Karen & Charles exchange vows
Karen’s vows to Charles:
I, Karen, cherish you, Charles for being all that you are.
I promise before our family and friends to commit my love to you, to respect your individuality, to be with you and support you through life’s changes and to nurture and strengthen the love between us day by day.
Because you deserve no less than the best of me, I will also strive to be more fully my true self.
I choose to live a healthy, happy, joy-filled, magical marriage.
I choose you to be my husband.
Charles’ vows to Karen:
I, Charles Bernard Olson,
choose you,
Karen Marie Senffner,
to be my wedded wife,
my woman.You are a vast ocean of love.
You are a great gift from the universe to itself.
You are a miracle and a mystery.To you I pledge
To love you,
I pledge to respect you, which is a form of love
I pledge to listen to you, which is a form of love
I pledge to be available for you, which is a form of love
I pledge to help you, which is a form of love
I pledge to protect you, which is a form of love
I pledge to care for you, which is a form of love
I pledge to wrestle you, which is a form of love
I pledge to inspire you, which is a form of loveThis I pledge freely and with joy.
Thus to love, to love, and to love.
I choose you to be my wife.
Karen & Charles tie the knots

Alison blesses Karen & Charles.
Charles and Karen drink from the heart chalice.
Blessing/prayer by Shelly & Donna holding chalice
Calling on heaven and earth and all the elements to join us in joyous celebration.
In honor of this sacred union, I ask for blessings in the lives of Karen & Charles.
Blessed be the gifts of love they share.
Blessed be each tender touch.
Blessed be the light and power of their minds together.
Blessed be their spiritual partnership.
Blessed be their creative fire and passion for life.
Blessed be their peace, as one.
May our holy father-mother-god wrap these two magnificent souls in the arms of love forever.
Glory be to Karen & Charles!
Alison passes the chalice to friends who speak and/or drink and/or "offer to the goddess" as they choose
Chalice goes around the circle and ends with Karen & Charles
Karen & Charles read the Cherokee prayer
O Divine, which is in each of us and all of us and everything,
please protect the ones we love.
We honor you as we pledge our hearts and lives together.
We honor Mother Earth – and ask for our marriage
to be abundant and grow stronger through the seasons;
We honor Fire and ask that our union be warm and
glowing with love in our hearts;
We honor Wind and ask that we sail through life
safe and calm as in our father’s arms;
We honor Water – to cleanse and soothe our relationship,
that it may never thirst for love;
With all the goodness of the universe, we pray for
harmony and true happiness as we forever grow young together.
Alison introduces the 7 first steps into married life together
As a group we step 7 times towards the center of the circle holding hands and building energy toward the altar.
1st That we may strengthen our love, peace, and happiness each day.
2nd That we may create a healthy, happy, beautiful, healing home together for our family and all those who enter.
3rd That our health and wealth may prosper for the benefit of ourselves, our family and our larger community.
4th That we may help one another grow more fully into our true potential so that our divine light may shine brightly in the world.
5th That we may welcome with open arms any other beneficent beings who wish to enter our life and that we may create a healthy, happy family together.
6th That we may find our path of service in the world to the best of our talents, abilities and blessings.
7th That magic, adventure, passion, health, happiness and spontaneity be deeply present in our life together.
So be it.

Alison instructs group for the "OM" to send the vibration out into the universe
Alison explains the symbolism of jumping the rope, and gives instructions:
All the men take hold of the green end of the rope, and the women take hold of the red end of the rope, and PULL!!!

Karen & Charles jump the rope out of the circle

The group returns to the orchard for food!
and music -- Calypso courtesy of Michael and Bill!
and dancing!








Many thanks to all who made this wonderful celebration possible...
A big warm heartfelt thank you to Alison, whose love & guidance shines like a thousand suns...
A special thanks to Buddy & Dorcas and their lovely family for generously
sharing their home-space with us...
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